This article will help you to get things done. It will support you to focus on your own stuff! Weiterlesen „Why you should focus on yourself firstly!“
Are you in a relationship? Fine.
Do you want to boost that relationship a little bit? Do you want to spice it up here and there and bring it on a higher level?
Many couples get stuck in their long-term relationships… but that must not be your reality. You can become happier with your partner if you choose to be happy. Sounds weird, right? Weiterlesen „Thoughtful Wednesday: 4 magical skills of being a great spouse“
If you read that lines right now, how much are you motivated to chase your dreams? To handle any issue which confronts you and hinders you from being that person you want to be?
I am on a business travel and I met many people the last couples of days who are in that „I dont know what to do“-state. They complain, but don’t suggest an improvement. The others are responsible for their miseries and they are victims of their destiny. STOP!
That is not your mindset, and not mine too. We are here on that earth and have so many possibilities if we open our eyes, ears and hearts for the solutions.
If I am in a bad situaton it is easy to say somebodys guilty for that stage. But putting the responsibility on my own shoulders is smarter, because if I am aware about the fact, that I did put myself in a certain situation, then I can get out of it too. Nontheless youj might not feel ready for this. Perhaps you are afraid about a bad outcome, the opinions of other people or that you are not really ready for a change at all…
Hopefully I can calm you down a little bit… because if you don’t work on your dreams nobody else will help you to reach them.
- Find time to write down your dreams.
- Think about a stairway and how your reach your dream/goal step by step
- which habits hinder you from chasing your dream? Try to get rid of those timewaster
- Which habits help you to reach your goal/ dream easier and faster? Focus on that behaviour
- Do you need help from others or need to get smart input? Consider who is the right person/place for you?
- Try to educate yourself every day, train your brain for at least ten minutes a day!
- Change is very important. People are afraid to change because about the reactions of their relatives, friends, neighbours and colleugues… its your dream not their dream, so you need to change to the good to get the results you want to have.
- Focus on solutions, not on problems (be positive and think out of the box!)
- Stay positive and patience even if its hard some times
- Never give up, even if you fall down, get up again and focus on the goal which you want to reach!
Hopefully you are more motivated after reading this blogpost. If so, I reached my goal for today to help you to be more aware about your dreams… thanks for reading, consider to subscribe to my blog if you not already did before ;O)
Are you aware about your degree-level of negativity?
Are you more positive forward looking into the future or is it a dark place with lots of challenges, problems and hard decisions to make?
I personally believe in the power of positivity, although I can get pretty into a dark shape here and there which can be terrifying others for sure. If you can feel the pain you can literally change the game. Some people need to get stuck in a whole ocean of obstacles so they can raise and get great ideas and solutions for issues nobody had ever thought of.
Perhaps that sounds familiar to you?
I don’t like to be negative, but I can be very negative sometimes. And the challenge is to focus on solutions instead of problems.
If you have a bad issue going on then by visualising and overthinking the problem you will paint that picture of your problem even darker then it ever was before.
The last two weeks I tackled a lot of issues and I am proud of it because just my positives thoughts helped me to stay on track and fight until the end. If you find solutions you will realise how great life can be and how other humans can help you on that journey.
Many people start judging others if they are confronted with problems or conflicts. But things are not getting better by putting fingers on others. If you drag somebody down, you might feel higher at the first place but after a while there will occur a bitter taste because you realise that you hurt somebody else in order to feel better for a minute.
On the opposite if somebody’s feeling bad and you can help out and make that person smile then you feel energised and powerful through that process.
I barely meet people who have a positive mindset and are energetic as I am, but I really enjoy people to show the stars and the possibilities they have, which they don’t explore by themselves.
Perhaps you might think: Why do you write that? Why do you want me to be more positive, I dont feel I am able to think positive... and if you feel like this, you literally need that catch up that input, because you get to a point where you feel exhausted, weak and already having that low-batterie status.
Plug-in your charge, whatever brings you joy helps you to get out of that dark place. If you feel like listing to music will help you, than do it right now. If you feel like doing a work out then get up and start moving.
Don’t feel sorry for your own misery. You can create a better place if you change your activities and your own reality. While you do what you enjoy, you will find solutions for your problems. If you just are lost in your negative thoughts, you will never pass that dark tunnel again.
Go forward, be brave and see the light on the other side of the tunnel! I am sure you will find energy for that. Be honest to yourself and you will realise that you painted the picture a little bit darker then it should be.
Hopefully you enjoy your life so far no matter which problems you have to face. Do you ever thought, that everything is too much for you? That you can not handle a certain issue which bothers you? Did you ever felt exhausted by your own thoughts and overwhelmed by your surroundings?
The reality is sometimes surreal. Do you feel deeply but cannot express all your insights because other people might think you overreact? Weiterlesen „Thougtful wednesday: The idea of being more present with people we love“
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Ganz ehrlich? Du willst nicht, dass ich ehrlich zu dir bin. Oder lieber doch? Die meisten möchten lieber Honig, um den Mund gepinselt bekommen, als dass ich die Wahrheit ausspreche. Warum? Weil es manchmal verdammt weh tut, die Wahrheit zu hören.
Aber obwohl die Lebenserwartung recht lang ist, versäumen so viele Menschen, ihr Leben selbst in die Hand zu nehmen und zu leben. Ihr Ding zu machen! Widme dich den Dingen, die dich mit Freude erfüllen… Weiterlesen „Montags-Motivation: Warum es so wichtig ist, dein eigenes Ding zu machen!“
Du möchtest deine Beziehung verbessern? Deine Freundin, beschwert sich, dass du keine Zeit für sie hast oder ihr nicht zu hörst? Alles kein Problem mehr, wenn du ein paar Details beachtest. Frauen sind gar nicht so kompliziert, wie sie vorgeben zu sein. Du kannst mit wenigen Klenigkeiten, ihr Herz höher schlagen lassen und frischen Wind in deinen Beziehungsalltag bringen. Schau dir einfach mal mein Youtube-Video an. Egal ob du ein erfolgreicher Unternehmer bist oder Angestellter… mein KnowHow hilft dir hoffentlich weiter, deine Partnerin ein Stück weit besser zu verstehen…