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Are you aware about your degree-level  of negativity?

Are you more positive forward looking into the future or is it a dark place with lots of challenges, problems and hard decisions to make?

I personally believe in the power of positivity, although I can get pretty into a dark shape here and there which can be terrifying others for sure. If you can feel the pain you can literally change the game. Some people need to get stuck in a whole ocean of obstacles so they can raise and get great ideas and solutions for issues nobody had ever thought of.

Perhaps that sounds familiar to you?

I don’t like to be negative, but I can be very negative sometimes. And the challenge is to focus on solutions instead of problems.

If you have a bad issue going on then by visualising and overthinking the problem you will paint that picture of your problem even darker then it ever was before.

The last two weeks I tackled a lot of issues and I am proud of it because just my positives thoughts helped me to stay on track and fight until the end. If you find solutions you will realise how great life can be and how other humans can help you on that journey.

Many people start judging others if they are confronted with problems or conflicts. But things are not getting better by putting fingers on others. If you drag somebody down, you might feel higher at the first place but after a while there will occur a bitter taste because you realise that you hurt somebody else in order to feel better for a minute.

On the opposite if somebody’s feeling bad and you can help out and make that person smile then you feel energised and powerful through that process.

I barely meet people who have a positive mindset and are energetic as I am, but I really enjoy people to show the stars and the possibilities they have, which they don’t explore by themselves.

Perhaps you might think: Why do you write that? Why do you want me to be more positive, I dont feel I am able to think positive... and if you feel like this, you literally need that catch up that input, because you get to a point where you feel exhausted, weak and already having that low-batterie status.

Plug-in your charge, whatever brings you joy helps you to get out of that dark place. If you feel like listing to music will help you, than do it right now. If you feel like doing a work out then get up and start moving.

Don’t feel sorry for your own misery. You can create a better place if you change your activities and your own reality. While you do what you enjoy, you will find solutions for your problems. If you just are lost in your negative thoughts, you will never pass that dark tunnel again.

Go forward, be brave and see the light on the other side of the tunnel! I am sure you will find energy for that. Be honest to yourself and you will realise that you painted the picture a little bit darker then it should be.